Once Upon A Time...?

There was me. And I have an awesome friend. And she likes this guy, who has a girlfriend. This guy, lets just call him...Fred...and my friend...lets call her...Daphne (lol), are really flirtatious. But that's the thing, "fred" flirts with everyone...EVEN ME! "Daphne" asked him if he wasn't going out with his gf if he would go out with her and he said probably.

"Fred" Is one of my ex-es, but we're pretty good friends, so it doesnt bother me. what bothers me is that "fred" is a PLAYER. i told my friend, and that she shouldn't be a homewrecker, and ruin freds relationship with his gf, but she says she cant help her feelings, and believe me, i understand. but...what do i do in this situation?

1. he is a player

2 he has a gf

3 she wants him to break up with his gf

4 he is a player

5 he is a player

6 i dont want her to get hurt....!!

7 he is a player





HE IS A PLAYER!



i love "daphne" To death! he hurt me and i bet he'll hurt her! hes hurt A LOT of other girls! wat do i do?

Once Upon A Time...?
The sad truth of the matter is most of us need to actually see for ourself that Fred's an asshole. It's how we grow up, learn, and mature. The way I see it is we can't choose a right one if the wrong one doesn't teach us what to avoid. You can probably tell Daphne that Fred has an STD and she'd still have to learn for herself. Give her advice but let her know despite how she chooses, you'll still be there to love and support her.



As for her breaking up the relationship, it wouldn't hurt to mention to her that if Fred's willing to ditch his girlfriend to be with her, who'se to say he won't ditch her to be with another girl too. Men can often be like dogs, they do it cause they can.



Daphne's heart will mend with time if she learns it the hard way but it'll be a lot quicker to mend if she knows she's got a friend in her court even when she makes stupid mistakes, so make sure that's clear to her.
Reply:This guy is an *** don't let your friend hook up with him, and I hate girls that break up relationships. I think that's so horrible, what does that say about her?
Reply:stay as far away from him and if u can try and get ur friend to stay away from him and let there relationship go
Reply:Sometimes people have to learn from their own mistakes..If she won't listen, you can't do anything.
Reply:I cant explain it all in this message so email or IM me 2 find out